Have You Settled? Dating and Relationship Advice

Dating and Relationship Advice
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Over the years of being a Professional Matchmaker, I have been referred to as a Dating and Relationship Coach, Dating Trainer, Dating Counselor, Dating Consultant and Relationship Consultant and Dating Expert.  You do not need the advice of an expert to determine if you have settled in your Dating or your Relationship. You will know deep down the truth of this matter ……….. so then why do so many people look to others to affirm or contradict their own feelings?  Time is a real villain to single men looking for women and single women looking for men.  When a single is ready to fall in love, they are ready NOW – often they were ready six months ago or longer.  When a single man or a single woman decide they want to be in a relationship, they are ready for results.  I have notice that the Universe has an interesting way of presenting the single man or single woman with a similar relationship experience that they have had previously, it is the Universe’s way of seeing if you have had growth you need and if you are ready to build on your past  relationship experiences.  When someone is in a relationship and they are questioning if they settled, the questioning alone is the answer.  Someone does NOT question a fulfilling relationship.  Over the years of working with single men and single women in Calgary and Edmonton, I thought I would share some Dating Advice about whether you have settled or not.

You have settled when:

  • You know you have settled when you feel you want more out of your love life – Deep Down your current partner can not give you anything more that you crave.
  • You know you have settled when you have imagined more for yourself in the past or you are imagining that you do want more.
  • You know you have settled when your dreams seem so far away and that the person you are with feel like they are dragging you away from them.
  • You know you have settled when you have that gut feeling, you gut is always trying to tell you have the wrong person in your life.
  • You know you have settled when peers tell you so.
  • You know you have settled when you a living two separate lives of hobbies, interests and social life.
  • You know you have settled if you can not imagine being there for each other for life’s big events like child birth, retirement or death.
  • You know you have settled when you know you have sacrificed your own personal happiness.  Do you remember the dreams you used to have a bout your future?
  • You know you have settled when you are no longer are sexually interested in the person you are with and affection is minimal.
  • You know you have settled when your significant other holds you back, does not bring out the best in you or makes you act like someone you do not know.
  • You know you have settled when you are walking on eggshells around the person you are with.
  • You know you have settled when you crave change.
  • You know you have settled when you do NOT see your happy ever after.
  • You know you have settled when you have sacrificed your own personal happiness for the relationship you are in.
  • You know you have settled when you think about past loves, exes or people you work with.  romantically.
  • You know you have settled when you are not you.
  • You know you have settled when your significant other does not want you to be with friends and family.
  • You know you have settled when you are scared to be alone.
  • You know you have settled when the only reason you are in the relationship is for the kids or finances.
  • You know you have settled when you are creating a life you would like in your mind and it does not resemble the life you are in right now.
  • You know you have settled when you have replaced joy and happiness with resentment.
  • You know you have settled when you  are unhappy.

Dating and Relationships are something you should NOT have to doubt.  When you are true to yourself, really true to yourself and you have the person you love best interest at heart– it is a great way to keep yourself happy and strong in short or long term relationships.  If you need to consult a Dating and Relationship Coach, Dating Trainer, Dating Counselor, Dating Consultant and Relationship Consultant and Dating Expert to confirm if you should be with the person you are with,  This Professional Matchmaker believes that kind of doubt concludes that ” you have settled in a relationship.”  Relationships are meant to hold time, the time you need to get you to the next point where your love life may change.  Your romantic life is as long as your personal life,  your views will change and so will you.  There is a difference between having a real relationship and just being together because that is all you are used to.  There is a difference between meaning your “I LOVE YOUS” and just saying them every night because that is what you are suppose to do.  There is a difference between being together and wanting to be together.  It is a relationship, NOT A ROUTINE or something that is better than nothing.  Your heart is precious, be careful with it.  Single men looking for single women and single women looking for men in Calgary and Edmonton – there are choices to get the love you want, DO NOT SETTLE!  Strengthen yourself and you will Strengthen relationships.

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