Dating – It Really Is About Getting To Know Yourself

Dating Expert Tips for Single Men and Single Women
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Often I hear from singles, that being single is an inconvenience – singles just want to get to their “happily ever after.”  The key to successful dating and ultimately getting the relationship of your dreams is taking the time to really get to know your self, get to know what you are wanting and expecting out of a relationship.  As a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Expert, I have interviewed thousands of single men and single women in Calgary and Edmonton and the most important factor of attracting the perfect person to share your life with, is that you really know who you are and you  have a crystal clear intention of what you are wanting in a relationship.  You can not recognize what you are not clear on.  Clarity is the first step to getting the ultimate results you want.  I will outline some considerations that singles should have reflected on to move forward in their journey to find love.

  • What are your current relationship goals, what are your ultimate relationship goals?
  • Are you available and ready to have a relationship? Any emotional or financial considerations holding you back?
  • What importance do you put on having a relationship?
  • What attracts you to the opposite sex?
  • Why would the opposite sex be attracted to you?
  • Describe your friendships.  How do they relate to the person you want to share life with?
  • Describe your educational background. Are you expecting similar education in the relation you want to have?
  • Describe your professional or work life.  Are there challenges to someone accepting your career,  for example Are you out of Town often?  Are the work hours conducive to a balanced relationship?
  • Describe your view on your family, what you would hope from your significant others’ family?
  • Are you wanting a family of your own?
  • List the Top 5 Physical Aspects of a single man/single woman that are the most important to you.
  • List the Top 5 Personality Traits  of a single man/single woman that are the most important to you.
  • What kind of social activities do you enjoy and would you want to share them with some special?
  • What are your personal interests and do you want to share them with your future significant other?
  • How physically active are you?  Is it important that the person you fall in love with be at the same level of activity as you?
  • Are you a reader?  Do you consider yourself intelligent or intellectual?
  • What kind of travel and vacations have you been on and is there an expectation that your significant other have similar travel outlook?
  • How interested are you in current events?
  • What are you expectations for affection, romance and intimacy?
  • What kind of foundation do you expect to have in place before intimacy?
  • Who are you at work?
  • How would your friends describe you?
  • How would your family describe you?
  • What is your current dream?  If you could wave a magic wand you would?
  • What are your core values?
  • What is your attitudes?  Optimistic, Pessimist, Realist, Dreamer?
  • Do you have secrets that are a source of pain?  Will these secrets prevent you from getting the relationship you want?
  • Addictions – Caffeine, Alcohol, Drugs, Spending, Gambling, Sex will these addictions affect your future relationship?
  • What brings you joy in life?
  • What do you believe is possible for you?
  • What have you done in your life that you are most proud of?
  • What is the 2nd thing you are most proud of in your life?
  • How would you change humanity for the better?
  • How would you like others to perceive you?
  • What are the biggest self limiting thoughts or beliefs you have?
  • How confident are you in yourself?
  • Who is your greatest role model?

The questions that single men and single women could explore are endless.  These questions are meant for you to have a point of reflection and an idea of  who you are, what you are wanting in a relationship and what your future expectations are for a relationship.  As a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Expert, I believe by helping singles with putting thought and reflection into want they want for their future relationship and ultimately giving insight in the clarity of what they are wanting for themselves, is important to get the right end results singles want for relationships.  You can not get what you want if you are not clear about it.  Get to Know Yourself, it will help you in getting to know the person you want to share life with.  Strengthen yourself to Strengthen Relationships.


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